ABOUT ME
“I started my guiding journey with one clear intention: to help people navigate emotions and relationships with truth and presence. For much of my life, I felt ashamed of being a sensitive man. I believed it made me weak. Over time, I’ve learned that my sensitivity is not a flaw but an empowerment. By embracing it fully, I’ve allowed my inherent empathy and attunement to shine. This invites people to feel safe in their own vulnerability. That is the space I hold, and the gift I give back to the world.”
This is me
I believe emotions are a compass, not a problem to fix. I’ve been married for 11 years and I’m a dad of two. After eight years of monogamy, my partner and I transitioned to polyamory. It wasn’t easy. I met jealousy and fear face-to-face, and for a while they ran the show.
I read everything I could: research, books, stories from people who had walked this path, but what changed me most was turning inward. Doing the work by telling the truth to myself, feeling what I’d avoided, and practicing vulnerability when I least wanted to. I learned to feel and name my needs, take responsibility for my impact, communicate clearly, and repair with care. What facilitated my growth further was processing this with my coach and my friends. Over time I became more resilient and grounded, and my relationship became more secure, even as it stayed open.
This is the heart of my coaching: sensitive, lived, evidence-informed, and deeply human. I guide people of all genders through the complex emotional landscape of modern love, especially in non-monogamy, so you can move from reactivity to clarity, from shutdown to presence, and from fear to a more secure way of loving.
What i bring
non-monogamy guidance
Support with opening conversations, setting a sustainable pace, STI/safer-sex agreements, time/capacity planning, and calendars. We’ll design clear, livable agreements, normalize and channel NRE (new relationship energy), and learn how to balance freedom with security without losing either.
communication & Repair
Use the “I feel / when / because / I’m requesting” script, mirroring, and validation to de-escalate conflict. Learn rupture-to-repair steps: acknowledge impact, own your part, and create a concrete prevention plan.
Jealousy and fear transformation
Turn spikes into signals with somatic tools, “name it to tame it” language, and a simple jealousy protocol (feel → need → request). Build self-soothing and co-regulation skills so reassurance comes from care, not control.
family-sensitive support
Coaching that respects partnership, co-parenting, privacy, and time capacity. We’ll craft agreements that fit real-life schedules, include transitions/debriefs after dates, and protect anchor time without resentment.
Attachment-awareness:
Identify your patterns (anxious/avoidant/secure) and create micro-anchors—consistency, responsiveness, attunement—that grow security over time. We’ll practice check-ins, repair rituals, and predictable follow-through.
Inclusive, trauma-aware presence
A compassionate space for all genders and relationship styles. Consent-led pacing, grounding tools when emotions run high, gender-affirming language, and zero shame for how you love or what you desire.
I’d love to help you find your new path and step into emotional fluency and growth.
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